These bad habits of speech are not new. The Buddha considered the practice of Skillful Speech so essential to one's personal and spiritual development that he gave it its own step on the path to happiness. Skillful Speech, the Buddha told us, has four qualities: It is always truthful. It is uplifting, not malicious or unkind. It is gentle, not crude or harsh. It is moderate, not useless or meaningless.
A person who is known for gentle and beautiful speech, the Buddha explained, will quickly be trusted and respected. Such a person enjoys a calm and peaceful state of mind and is able to interact with others lovingly. Have you noticed, for instance, that people tend to speak to us as they have heard us speak? If we are known to exaggerate or to lie, others find it easier to lie to us. If we habitually malign others, people find it easier to speak harshly of us. The converse is also true. If we are known for truthfulness, our words are more readily believed. If we have a reputation for discretion, others find it harder to spread gossip about us. If our speech is always kind and gentle, others feel embarrassed to swear or speak crudely in our presence.
Skillful Speech
~by Bhante Gunaratana
Source: http://www.dharmanet.org/
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Priyantha Premasiri
Superb picture and very maningful words of the post. My dear sister…
Rajesh Beitha
very nice picture my dear friand jendhamuni sos
Pieter Hibma
Car salespeople got it down to a t but not always truthful. Fibbing and lying what's the difference.
bhagawati sharan
NICE
hikmet akinay
wery nice
aly taha
Beautiful .good night my friend
Stephen Ward
Nice picture and lovely words to go with it
Luci Young
Hello, i like your post. Agreed.
-金源 王
very nice
azad verma
it's wounderful'as so nice flower
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Atul Shukla
Very beautiful words. Sometimes speech hurts more then wepons.
Hana Markos
wow very nice foto
Rob Robinson
Hi +Jendhamuni Sos , thanx 4 ur sharing, the things u say, valid8 alot of my own bliefs, I say valid8 as I av found ur posts 2 b truthful, not 2 impress. Take care my fren 🙂
Khemchand Sharma
so beautiful
Santosh singh
Good teach.
Thanks.
Fernan Intal
very nice! so gently
Aldair Cota Machado
Bom dia Jendhamuni!
Ashima Dogra
Very true sister! thank you for sharing so wonderful teaching with us. I always learn something good through your post 🙂
Mamun Rashid
vvvv Nice
Afra H
awsm
Sofie Løve Forsberg
So true, my lovely friend.
pskumar
how are you?dearest jendhamuni..
Rana Singh
Great post … +Jendhamuni Sos ;)))