If someone genuinely loves you

Real love is not two people clinging to each other; it can only be fostered between two strong people secure in their individuality. A shallow person will only have shallow relationships. If you want to experience real love, it is important to first sincerely develop a strong self-identity. True love is not about doing whatever the other person wants you to do or pretending you are something you're not. If someone genuinely loves you, they will not force you to do anything against your will nor embroil you in some dangerous activity.

~Daisaku Ikeda



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  1. murugan powergrip

    November 20, 2014

    Lovely. 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  2. Carlos Bation

    November 20, 2014

    Mapagmahal na mensahe..Ingat my dear my Love

  3. Jogie Lumaghan

    November 20, 2014

    I super agree with the written words… Thanks you for the inspiration maam

  4. H,. Highlander

    November 20, 2014

    Dear Jenny, It's our genuine Love.
    You keep doing what you are doing
    and I keep doing what I am doing
    but we have to be more careful
    of our doings ha"! love you.

  5. Raj k

    November 20, 2014


  6. sulaikhal beevi

    November 20, 2014

    dis rose flower rests on my table….real love..it can only b fostered between two strong people to secure their individuality…….exact ….
    good morning…… dearest sister….have a strong loving day……o.k

  7. N Sekar

    November 20, 2014

    Every word is a diamond

  8. Mizanur Rahman

    November 21, 2014

    "The word of Love = i beleive that love begins green, sometime it's grows red, somewhere it's supplys white, also share with yeolow & many. It's also have a colour of black."

  9. Meg Hudson

    November 21, 2014

    There's my beautiful rose always makes me smile big………..

  10. An Ros

    November 21, 2014

    I think your idea are very well

  11. Meg Hudson

    November 21, 2014

    Love you sweet sister

  12. Michael Cammock

    November 21, 2014

    The very serious realities of life here, +Jendhamuni Sos . So a Balance, also, is good to pursue in one's own endeavour's of negotiating life's challenges.

  13. Niaz Ahmed

    November 22, 2014

    I like you +I love you

  14. Philip T Bridgeman

    November 22, 2014

    Jendahamuni, I thoroughly enjoy your writings and messages of faith in mankind, kindness, etc. and the pics are unbelievable.
    Your husband is a very lucky man.
    I have downloaded many of your moving pics and mssgs.
    I was wondering if you could tell me where to get the software to run the pics in succession using them as a wallpaper in a kaleidescope of running pics on my computer. I can't seem to find the software.
    Please. If you could.

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