You have to let go

You have to let go of all the pointless drama & people who create it and surround yourself with the people who make you laugh so hard that you forget the bad & focus solely on good. After all
life is too short to be anything but happy.

Sources: sms4smile
http://leelavadeeflower.blogspot.com/2014/05/when-you-have-to-let-go.html

Comments

  1. lamin tmg

    April 30, 2014

    We can live 100 years who said too short?by the way good morning.

  2. Reg Dawn

    April 30, 2014

    Yes….great and true share dear sis!
     Yes..life is too short…..spend it happy …sending you a big smile and a big hug sis …. 🙂

  3. Dan Lettington

    April 30, 2014

    So very true dear friend! Hope you are able to find the laughter also!

  4. Jendhamuni Sos

    April 30, 2014

    So nice to catch up with you again +Dan Lettington I never got to visit you since my little sister passed a way. Going through friends' list again.

  5. Annette Marie Harlow

    April 30, 2014

    Thanks Jen….Tranquil thoughts are needed in this difficult world…God Bless YOU♥♥♥

  6. Dan Lettington

    April 30, 2014

    Sorry for your loss my friend, it is so very hard losing family any one close. I know the pain, my father passed this year. God bless you dear. With time its easier to reflect on the happy times but at first the pain seems too dominate. My prayers are with friend. Hang in there. It's nice to talk again!

  7. Kirstin Strand

    April 30, 2014

    Some ppl seem to have difficulty letting go of hard times…I seem to not be one of them.

  8. Corina Farser

    April 30, 2014

    Good morning to you jendhamuni and a bless day I agree with every word you wrote

  9. Ashlyn Kelley

    April 30, 2014

    I agree. Drama is a waste of time. Especially when it becomes physical. BTW – Love the photo. Can you say prom gift

  10. rainy STARS

    April 30, 2014

    Yes great saying. I must agree, and i adore the photo.

  11. Kymberly Huck

    April 30, 2014

    Such a great statement….,… I wish we ALL THOUGHT LIKE THIS … CUDOOS!!!!! GREAT INSITE ….

  12. Thomas Almeida

    April 30, 2014

    Yes people around make you.
    Good people make you happy and successful ,bad people make you unhappy .
    Need to choose people carefully .

  13. Joyce Massey

    April 30, 2014

    It would be nice peoples see buty of parts of the world amen

  14. Rose Joseph

    April 30, 2014

    Definitely agree and a true statement! Thank you for sharing…

  15. Wagner Orellana

    April 30, 2014

    I couldn't have said it better myself. Life is what you make of it. Go far and beyond to acquire true happiness and enjoy every minute of it.

  16. Patti Banks

    April 30, 2014

    It's not the years in your life but the life in your years

  17. Lucien Gutierrez

    April 30, 2014

    Amen, just broke up w my gf who has been nothing but drama for ten months. Lord help me let go and stay let go and let you guide my steps… Amen

  18. ian james

    April 30, 2014

    Life without drama? How unutterably boring?

  19. C.M. kinyanjui

    April 30, 2014

    True….but even though you let go of the people with pointless drama..keep them close so that you can always smile at chaos you evaded..

  20. Xolisile Gabela

    April 30, 2014

    Hi dear I like wht u said it true being happy is the most healing medicine to an unhappy soul

  21. Doll Tellis

    April 30, 2014

    All it's takes is talking to god and reading his words

  22. Jill Sawall

    April 30, 2014

    Lost my husband. My 15 year old son to suicide. House burnt down next. No time in my life for drama. Faith is all we have.. and love for one another.

  23. Pam LeBar

    April 30, 2014

    Make sure you're following the One who died for you.The selfless One.

  24. Audie Ramos

    April 30, 2014

    Yes you're absolutely right, Jend, enjoy and have a great day, wish you all the best and god bless you

  25. Jackie Carter

    April 30, 2014

    U r so right my son is so that laughier smile and will help bring all people up

  26. Sean Welch

    May 1, 2014

    Love the statement. Positive help to accentuate the good in life. They help you to forget all the negativity in the world.

  27. Manny Santiago

    May 1, 2014

    Super well written and profoundly true!
    This ride we're all on, its not repeated -_-)

  28. Zanele sanderson

    May 1, 2014

    Lucien Gutierrez….. letting go is not easy even harder wen you love…cry scream do whatever you feel to ease the pain talk to a friend….talk to you to find strength to let go….anti de presets come in handy in times like this to calm you down.. and yes do admit to your creator to grant you strength. .

  29. Zanele sanderson

    May 1, 2014

    Jill Sawall you such a strong person….less details of the drama is an indication that you are a problem solver. You find solutions quicker than the problems yu face in life….I salute you….

  30. Lori Brown

    May 1, 2014

    That's so cool I. Wish all people think like that

  31. Jayesh Thakkar

    May 1, 2014

    Always try to derive good things from life. Have a good day Jen.

  32. Jim Strong

    May 1, 2014

    But how do i let go when she was really the love of my life

  33. Akhzal Pal

    May 1, 2014

    And we want to absorb only happiness in this short life.

  34. Mema Foltz

    May 1, 2014

    Oh u don't know how much I needed that. .

  35. Jim Strong

    May 1, 2014

    and we been knowing each other for over 20 something years and then lovers for the last ten fifteen years as she walked right out of my life with another man and now all she dose is calls me and harass me I can't seem to get over her she was my world she was my everything all I do now is sit and cry I can't seem to get out of the hole I miss her so much so tell me how did you get over it when you have a love so strong for someone

  36. Jim Strong

    May 1, 2014

    I don't eat I don't sleep I just sit and cry and asked myself where do I go where did I go wrong I took care of this woman all my life that's what was 17 years old I am 45 years old I'm a very good health but I'm heartbroken and I need a friend that's very hard to come by as like looking for a needle in a haystack the only friend I have she was my lover and my best friend I have no mama I have no daddy I have one child she lives in Texas I see her once a year maybe and I pay child support on that really what do I have to live for

  37. patty reed

    May 1, 2014

    really it will pass dont try and fill the void with another lover to qickly.you may be cousing more damage just find joy in yourself also forgive but domt forget.when you focus on the good on you the healing will begin

  38. Antoinette Rider

    May 1, 2014

    OMG…ARE U SERIOUS…PRAY THAT GOD REMOVE HER & THE PAIN OUT OF UR HEART…AND THANK HIM FOR SENDING WHO HE HAS FOR U….

  39. Nomkwitsho Sikota

    May 1, 2014

    You will be fine just surround you with friends and family who give u the support as time goes by u will forget the past and move on with your life and don't forget to have faith in God.

  40. Patricia Mcgraw

    May 1, 2014

    Hi my name Patricia,mcgraw I don't no you put of you been some one to talk to you can talk to me any time day or night, ok

  41. zandi msuthu

    May 1, 2014

    That is true dear..only Jehovah God can brings endless joy,Love and care to us as imperfect humans

  42. zandi msuthu

    May 1, 2014

    That is true dear..only Jehovah God can brings endless joy,Love and care to us as imperfect humans

  43. Jose Martinz

    May 1, 2014

    Truly said!!! Now to live by this proverb is a difficult process especially since this world is filled with so much negativity!!

  44. Jully Anne

    May 1, 2014

    So true dear. Bad vibe makes us grow old faster..

  45. Patricia Mcgraw

    May 1, 2014

    Jim strong just gave her time she come a ground she talk to you ok

  46. Natasha Lawlor

    May 1, 2014

    Letting go is simple . The path we chose is actioned by though . U created that thought? Only u can change and creat them . Jat is my letting go. J(just ) a(a) t (thought)

  47. Rosa Reyes

    May 1, 2014

    Right on …really liked & will put to practice what i just read :0

  48. Ejeye Bawo

    May 1, 2014

    Good to everyone who gets to see this day

  49. 沈崇聖

    May 1, 2014

    再此啥事鄂詮釋辭我;
    澳晚用敖ㄞㄙㄠㄣㄣㄙㄡㄣㄙㄡㄢㄨㄨㄛㄜㄣㄠ愛7++

  50. Salmat Funmilayo

    May 1, 2014

    Let's be realistic, life has two sided that intertwines Into each other. From bitterness comes sweetness,sadness to happiness,night into day and many more. It wont just be rosy all through,whatever side it presents to you ,just be thankful and be constant in the remembrance of the almighty. In that do hearts find rest. Wishing us a wonderful life ahead.inshaallah.

  51. Pam Egwuonwu

    May 1, 2014

    How true that is; thanks for the beautiful thought!

  52. George Estrada

    May 1, 2014

    Its hard but I try. I always appreciate the way you think. George Estrada. Bye.

  53. mary kay

    May 1, 2014

    Frank I love you I hope today your ankle is better than yesterday!

  54. Adrian John

    May 1, 2014

    Forget to say..Wise counsel as well as great photo..

  55. Velma Adhiambo

    May 1, 2014

    Jim strong' am Velma from Kenya' sorry for your pain but open your heart and just love again. Find your happy ness again and never give up.

  56. Patti Skirvin

    May 1, 2014

    I have to let go of the love of my life also, difficult but neccessary for my sanity and peace.

  57. azam suda

    May 2, 2014

    yes,its right, so we all need be careful & active

  58. Dawn Joseph

    May 1, 2014

    Life is too short, and it is your legacy you leave behind for your children and generations to come. There is no room in your heart for hate if you surround yourself with, and give love. Do more for others than you do for yourself.

  59. Gidescu Aurelian Cosmin

    May 1, 2014

    Ca sa avem parte de ceea ce ne dorim,viata lunga si fericita,trebuie Sa ne intoarcem la Isus.

  60. Sherie A. Aswell

    May 1, 2014

    Yes to short to be unhappy and need to surround self with happy positive people like you thx just what I need to to read this beautiful morning 🙂

  61. Heather Mumford

    May 1, 2014

    Jim Strong- Embrace ur pain.Right now it has u in its grip;however once u turn it around & learn from the lesson this woman has sadly provided for u,then u will be able to set it aside.Sometimes,a hurt like that,u can't forget & that's ok.But u can tuck it away until someone new comes along to help u soothe it away,or u become strong enough to do it on ur own.Don't let her have the glory of keeping the best part of ur soul.U take it back & save it for someone worthy.

  62. Sherie A. Aswell

    May 1, 2014

    Thanks for the love and support 🙂 turning over a new leaf 😉

  63. Qamar Zaman

    May 1, 2014

    Subhan Allah Rab-e-Kareem ki sannai tu dekhiey.

  64. Evelyn Pena

    May 1, 2014

    That was nice… while there is time.. we need to use it wisely and properly…

  65. Joseph Chioma

    May 1, 2014

    jim strong it is not easy to let go but you have to try in order to live your normal life

  66. Amal f

    May 1, 2014

    Yes I agree you hv 2 let it go and love yourself so much that you seek joy and happiness in each moment.

  67. Daniel Goff

    May 1, 2014

    If only we could get rid of all the A-holes around us that create pointless dramas!!

  68. Amal f

    May 1, 2014

    My moments of joy come when I am still and appreciating the beauty of nature, the sound of children laughing, the little things we so often take 4 granted.

  69. kirui marion

    May 1, 2014

    e could erase the past–but you are right,we only live once

  70. KATHLEEN bermudez

    May 1, 2014

    True I had to let my children go and LOVE them from a distance GOD says feed your enemies if they are hunger give them something to drink if they are thirsty but no where in the BIBLE does it say you have to put up with people nonesence

  71. Sharlisa Hill

    May 1, 2014

    And so it is written that we are promised trouble days. So why add more trouble to the other days.

  72. Tina Bethe

    May 1, 2014

    Wish it was always that easy, but it's def true! Beautiful saying & flower!

  73. David Blake

    May 1, 2014

    Beautiful picture from a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing Jendhamuni!

  74. Connie Underwood

    May 1, 2014

    I only run with the best….and we're running away to Virginia all next week..can't wait.

  75. Nikole Carpenter

    May 1, 2014

    Soooo true life is pointless if u have hurt n frustration all th time but u can rearrange sum losses n make the life u want worthwhile

  76. den pkadhya

    May 1, 2014

    Live life for 200%.
    100% for material life on earth and100% for spirituality. Regards

  77. Dave B

    May 1, 2014

    Thats ridiculous, life is full of sorrow and joys. Perspective on our existence is what is necessary.

  78. Alexa Ginn

    May 2, 2014

    Woah! Two accidental Frozen references in there!

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