July 2014 — Page 11 of 17 — Jendhamuni-Buddhism

Negative feelings are like weeds

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Negative feelings are like weeds; if you don’t fully extract their roots, they will keep coming back. So take control of your attitude. Look at what’s right. Believe in yourself. Ignore those who try to discourage you. Avoid negative people, places, things, and habits. Don’t give up, and don’t give in to consuming the garbage these negative sources are trying to feed you.

Sure, there will always be problems and challenges, but there are always people willing to transform those problems and challenges into great opportunities. Those who have the courage, commitment and discipline to do so, create a better life for everyone. Be one of these people. Focus on positive solutions and work your way eagerly toward a brighter future.

~Marc and Angel
Someone will see…

1 July 10, 2014

Don’t hold on to someone because you think there will be
no one else. You’ve got to believe in yourself, and that
you’re worth more than being repeatedly hurt by someone
who doesn’t really care. Believe that someone will see
what you are really worth and treat you the way
you should be treated. ~Unknown
Emotions

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When two people are in love, they tend to show only the best aspects of their nature and character to each other in order to project a good impression of themselves. Love is said to be blind and hence people in love tend to become completely oblivious of the darker side of each other's natures.

In practice, each will try to highlight his or her sterling qualities to the other, and being so engrossed in love, they tend to accept each other at "face value" only. Each lover will not disclose the darker side of his or her nature for fear of losing the other. Any personal shortcomings are discreetly swept under the carpet, so to speak, so as not to jeopardize their chances of winning each other. People in love also tend to ignore their partner's faults thinking that they will be able to correct them after marriage, or that they can live with these faults, that "love will conquer all."

However, after marriage, as the initial romantic mood wears off, the true nature of each other's character will be revealed. Then, much to the disappointment of both parties, the proverbial veil that had so far been concealing the innermost feelings of each partner is removed to expose the true nature of both partners. It is then that disillusion sets in.

By Ven. Dr. K. Sri Dhammananda

http://leelavadeeflower.blogspot.com/2014/07/blinded-by-emotions.html

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Someone will see

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Don't hold on to someone because you think there will be no one else. You've got to believe in yourself, and that you're worth more than being repeatedly hurt by someone who doesn't really care. Believe that someone will see what you are really worth and treat you the way you should be treated.

~Unknown

http://leelavadeeflower.blogspot.com/2014/07/someone-will-see.html

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The personality and the soul

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The personality and the soul is what makes a person beautiful,

it does not always have to be the physical appearance.

The greatest beauty on earth is found in the hearts of those who love.

It’s kindness in a person, not beauty, which wins our love.

~Source Unknown
Peace of Mind

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Accept what cannot be changed. This saves a lot of time, energy and worries. Every day, we face numerous inconveniences, irritations and situations that are beyond our control. If we can change them, that's fine, but this is not always possible. We must learn to put up with such things and accept them cheerfully.

Don't take everything too personally. A certain degree of emotional and mental detachment is very helpful. On many occasions, it would be useful to inject a certain measure of detachment and non involvement. This would bring into your life more peace, harmony and common sense.

Don't dwell on the past. The past is not here any more, so why think about it? Let bygones be gone. Forget the past and focus on the present moment. There is no need to evoke unpleasant memories and immerse yourself in them.

Source: Success Consciousness

http://kimedia.blogspot.com/2014/07/khmer-chapei-dong-veng.html

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LOVE…

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There are different kinds of love, and these are variously expressed
as motherly love, brotherly love, sensual love, emotional love, sexual love,
selfish love, selfless love, and universal love.

If people develop only their carnal or selfish love towards each other,
that type of love cannot last long. In a true love relationship, one should
not ask how much one can get, but how much one can give.

~By Ven. Dr. K. Sri Dhammananda
Live more deeply from our own truth

Comment July 9, 2014

When we begin to let go, it’s as if everything begins to break down. All our concepts and beliefs that we use to use to define ourselves by slowly begin to dissolve until they are no longer there. Our expectations fade and our awareness expands until reality becomes something very subjective and impermanent. We begin to realize that every individual is uniquely special and on their own path. Then, we are able to release the need to control other people, we are able to take responsibility for ourselves and begin to live more deeply from our own truth—knowing everyone we meet and every situation we encounter is, most likely, just another lesson in letting go.

By Molly Robertson, MindBodyGreen
Not only by our own experiences…

Comment July 9, 2014

We don’t live through life only by our own experiences,
we live through life with other people’s experience as a reference too.

― Nike Thaddeus
Your past actions…

Comment July 9, 2014

People screw up. People screw up a lot. We allow our own selfishness to overpower us at times. It happens. But you can’t allow that to tear you down. You can’t keep dwelling on your past choices, and your past actions, or else you’ll never learn from them.

― Nicole Sobon

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