1. The Good Buddhist

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    The preceding sections of this essay will help the Buddhist lay follower to understand, from a practical angle, the main points of the Buddha’s teachings as they bear on the conduct of daily life. Constant practice of these principles will ensure that they are built into his character, enabling him to develop into a well-rounded human being, a center of sanity in a confused world adrift in fashionable philosophies full of empty promises.

    At the very minimum a lay follower of the Buddha must keep the Five Precepts, which enables him to develop virtue in regard to his bodily and verbal behavior. But one should not stop with this. One who seeks the true perfection of happiness must also attend to the cultivation of the mind. One must be mindful of the arising of unwholesome states such as greed, anger, and delusion, and know how to deal with them effectively when they threaten to throw one off balance. One should proceed even further and attempt to cultivate the mind systematically through the practice of meditation for tranquillity and insight. Continue reading

  2. What the buddha really taught?

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    Sabbapāpassa akaraṇaṃ,
    kusalassa upasampadā;
    Sacitta­pari­yo­dapa­naṃ,
    etaṃ buddhāna sāsanaṃ.

    To avoid all evil,
    to cultivate wholesome qualities,
    and to cleanse one’s mind—
    this is the teaching of the Buddhas.
    Dhp 14 Buddha Vagga

  3. Inner peace begins

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    “Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.”  —Pema Chödrön

    The peace that we are looking for is not peace that crumbles as soon as there is difficulty or chaos. Whether we’re seeking inner peace or global peace or a combination of the two, the way to experience it is to build on the foundation of unconditional openness to all that arises. Peace isn’t an experience free of challenges, free of rough and smooth, it’s an experience that’s expansive enough to include all that arises without feeling threatened. ~ Pema Chödron

    “Inner peace is the key: if you have inner peace, the external problems do not affect your deep sense of peace and tranquility.” —Dalai Lama

    “Sometimes the most important thing in a whole day is the rest we take between two deep breaths.” —Etty Hillesum

    “The less you respond to negative people, the more peaceful your life will become.” —Unknown

    “Worrying does not take away tomorrow’s troubles. It takes away today’s peace.” ―Randy Armstrong

  4. Arañña Sutta: A Face So Calm

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    Translated from the Pali by Andrew Olendzki

    [Devata:]
    Those who abide in the forest,
    Peaceful, living the holy life;
    Those who eat but a single meal;
    — why is it their face is so calm?

    [The Buddha:]
    They do not grieve over the past,
    Nor do they yearn for the future;
    They live only in the present
    — That is why their face is so calm. Continue reading

  5. We accumulate layers of ideas about who we are

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    Samanera Ananda

    As we go through life, we accumulate layers of ideas about who we are and what we’re capable of achieving. As these layers accumulate, we tend to become increasingly rigid in our identification with certain views about ourselves and the world around us. Gradually, we lose our connection to the basic openness, clarity, and love that is the essence of our being. Our awareness is overwhelmed by hundreds of different thoughts, feelings, and sensations. Some we latch onto because they’re attractive fantasies or scary preoccupations; some we try to shove away because they’re too upsetting or because they distract us from whatever we’re trying to accomplish at the moment.

    Instead of focusing on some of them and pushing away others, though, just look at them as feathers flying in the wind. The wind is your awareness, your inborn openness and clarity. Feathers — the thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations that pass through our awareness — are harmless. Some may be more attractive than others, some less attractive; but essentially they’re just feathers. Look at them as fuzzy, curly things floating through the air. Continue reading

  6. The moon’s reflection on water appears without obstruction

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    The moon’s reflection on water appears without obstruction and seems to shine very brightly, yet it is simply the appearance of something that does not exist. There is no such thing as a moon in the water. Likewise, when one recognizes that thoughts have no true existence, one recognizes awareness, and this is dharmakaya. ~ Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche

  7. The Story of Visakha

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    Verse 213: Endearment begets sorrow, endearment begets fear. For him who is free from endearment there is no sorrow; how can there be fear for him?

    The Story of Visakha

    While residing at the Jetavana monastery, the Buddha uttered Verse (213) of this book, with reference to Visakha, the renowned donor of the Pubbarama monastery.

    One day, a granddaughter of Visakha named Sudatta died and Visakha felt very deeply about her loss and was sorrowing over the child’s death. So she went to the Buddha; when the Buddha saw her, he said, “Visakha, don’t you realize that many people die in Savatthi every day? If you were to regard all of them as you regard your own grandchild you would have to be endlessly weeping and mourning. Let not the death of a child affect you too much. Sorrow and fear arise out of endearment.” Continue reading

  8. Aghatavinaya Sutta: Subduing Hatred

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    Translated from the Pali by Thanissaro Bhikkhu

    “There are these five ways of subduing hatred by which, when hatred arises in a monk, he should wipe it out completely. Which five?

    “When one gives birth to hatred for an individual, one should develop good will for that individual. Thus the hatred for that individual should be subdued.

    “When one gives birth to hatred for an individual, one should develop compassion for that individual. Thus the hatred for that individual should be subdued.

    “When one gives birth to hatred for an individual, one should develop equanimity toward that individual. Thus the hatred for that individual should be subdued. Continue reading

  9. If you have patience with people

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    Samanera Ananda

    It is necessary to work patiently with others, all the time. If you have patience with people, they slowly change. You do have some effect on them if you are radiating your sanity. They will begin to take notice, although of course they don’t want to let anybody know. They say, “Nothing has changed. I have the same problems.” But don’t give up. Something happens — if you take your time. It works! ~ Chögyam Trungpa

  10. Do Not Speak Harsh Words

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    Words have the power to heal—or to harm. The Buddha taught that harsh speech not only hurts others, but also disturbs our own peace of mind.

    Hatred, indeed, has never yet dispelled hate. Only love dispels hate. Hatred just leads to revenge, and revenge leads to more hate. A cycle of suffering is set in motion that can go on and on. Many places in the world today give sad evidence of this truth.

    Hatred is an extreme form of anger. The Buddha’s teachings take anger very serious­ly, because anger causes so much suffering.

    Even when anger is not acted out and is apparently controlled, a person who is inwardly angry can instantly change the atmosphere of a room when he enters. He brings an invisible chill with him. Anyone nearby tightens up and draws back, becomes less spontaneous and more guarded. This happens without any conscious doing. It seems simply a response on the cellular level to the quality of energy that anger gives out. Continue reading

Hermit of Tbeng Mountain

Sachjang Phnom Tbeng សច្ចំ​​ ភ្នំត្បែង is a very long and interesting story written by Mr. Chhea Sokoan, read by Jendhamuni Sos. You can click on the links below to listen. Part 1 | Part 2

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