1. In a true love relationship

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    by Ven. Dr. Sri Dhammananda

    There are different kinds of love, and these are variously expressed as motherly love, brotherly love, sensual love, emotional love, sexual love, selfish love, selfless love, and universal love.

    If people develop only their carnal or selfish love towards each other, that type of love cannot last long. In a true love relationship, one should not ask how much one can get, but how much one can give.

    When beauty, complexion and youth start to fade away, a husband who considers only the physical aspects of love may think of acquiring another young one. That type of love is lust. If a man really develops love as an expression of human concern for another being, he will not lay emphasis only on the external beauty and physical attractiveness of his partner. The beauty and attractiveness of his partner should be in his heart and mind, not in what he sees. Likewise, the wife who follows Buddhist teachings will never neglect her husband even though he has become old, poor or sick.

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  2. Let go of love and hate

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    The heart of the path is quite easy. There’s no need to explain anything
    at length. Let go of love and hate and let things be. That’s all that
    I do in my own practice. ~Ajahn Chah

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  3. Love comes to those…

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    Love comes to those who still have hope although they’ve been disappointed,
    to those who still believe although they’ve been betrayed, to those who still love
    although they’ve been hurt before. ~smsrange

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  4. Love makes beauty

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    Beauty doesn’t make love
    but love makes beauty
    break everything
    but never break the heart
    Heart is the music play it
    but never play with it.

    ~sms4smile

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  5. It remains with you

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    Love is like a phone call, if you do not pick, it will be missed.
    But Friendship is like a message, it remains with you until you open it.

    ~Santabanta sms

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  6. As far as love is concerned

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    You can love as many people as you want – that does not mean one day you will
    go bankrupt, and you will have to declare, ‘Now I have no love.’
    You cannot go bankrupt as far as love is concerned. ~Osho

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  7. Only then will you find Love

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    The most inefficient and self-harming thing a person can do
    is go out looking for love. Let it find you when the time is right
    and you’re out doing what you love to do. Only then will you
    find it in its truest form. ~A.J. Darkholme

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  8. Will keep you strong

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    Smile – it will make you look better.
    Pray – it will keep you strong.
    Love – it will help you enjoy life more.

    ~SantaBanta

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  9. With love always

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    Conquer the angry man by love.
    Conquer the ill-natured man by goodness.
    Conquer the miser with generosity.
    Conquer the liar with truth.

    ~Buddha

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Live & Die for Buddhism

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My Reflection

This site is a tribute to Buddhism. Buddhism has given me a tremendous inspiration to be who and where I am today. Although I came to America at a very young age, however, I never once forget who I am and where I came from. One thing I know for sure is I was born as a Buddhist, live as a Buddhist and will leave this earth as a Buddhist. I do not believe in superstition. I only believe in karma.

A Handful of Leaves

A Handful of Leaves

Tipitaka: The pali canon (Readings in Theravada Buddhism). A vast body of literature in English translation the texts add up to several thousand printed pages. Most -- but not all -- of the Canon has already been published in English over the years. Although only a small fraction of these texts are available here at Access to Insight, this collection can nonetheless be a very good place to start.

Major Differences

Major Differences in Buddhism

Major Differences in Buddhism: There is no almighty God in Buddhism. There is no one to hand out rewards or punishments on a supposedly Judgement Day ...read more

Problems we face today

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Of the many problems we face today, some are natural calamities and must be accepted and faced with equanimity. Others, however, are of our own making, created by misunderstanding, and can be corrected...