Do not afraid to face criticism

We must learn how to handle negative comments on social media. Do not allow negative people to live in your head. Do not go to sleep with them. Go to sleep with the person you love instead. You need to show the negative people how to live your own life, by totally ignoring their comments; by letting them write on your posts freely, A-L-O-N-E. Responding to them is showing that you are participating in the ignorant world. If you cannot handle negative comments on social media, how are you going to fight the real battle in the real world, in your real life. It's a piece of cake to pretend to be an angel behind the computer screen, but it does not work like that in real life…Be tough! No one in this world will have time to criticize you every day, without your permission. You get hurt because you allow negative people to hurt you. And that is your own fault…~Jendhamuni

Comments

  1. Abul Hasnat

    September 15, 2013

    Good…………………………………………

  2. vidya sagar

    September 14, 2013

    well said and beautiful lines for the path of success.

  3. Pieter Hibma

    September 15, 2013

    We need also a left and a right hand to be effective. Similar but opposed to each other.

  4. michael patterson

    September 15, 2013

    So true… Thank you for your posts daily. I enjoy reading them. Have a good weekend J.Sos.

  5. catherina north

    September 15, 2013

    Just what I needed, thank you, going to try and do just that from now on. never too old to learn

  6. Margatita Martinez

    September 15, 2013

    Love it i wish i can downloaded. Because that's exactly i went thru months ago but am doing better .

  7. Margatita Martinez

    September 15, 2013

    Is not love is more hate and revenge but my friend taught me to be strong and keep silence not to reply on no post.

  8. Timothy Mckiness

    September 15, 2013

    Hello: Jendhamuni
    Is not the negative, comments nor is it being alone which I have been for 10 years I know what scares me and with the right now I know what terrifies me is the person that raped sexually assaulted beat my daughter for 61 days my anger for this person does not exist in my life that person is'nt even worth recognizing it as a human being yet they keep my daughter I separated. Because they're afraid of the truth hang tough is what we used in Vietnam I guess I'm just dog that you can't train new tricks where truth decency is somehow placed on the back burner and forgot. To you thank you from the bottom of my heart for the moment of peace and to speak with someone with some type of intelligence and feelings and emotions thank you lol T

  9. Jendhamuni Sos

    September 15, 2013

    +Margatita Martinez Not replying because of hate and revenge will not give you a long term peaceful mind. It will come back to harm you one day. You need to love the negative ones also because they need it the most. If they are living a peaceful life with their love ones, they would never go around causing trouble or give anyone a hard time. It's because they don't have a good life. They don't need any punishment. Not responding to their negative comments is enough punishment for them already. Only love can conquer hate.

  10. prakash b

    September 15, 2013

    Critic an crticism will be thrr always
    People criticise even the creator
    Than wt to worry abt self
    Take your criticism in a pisitive frame bcs criticism is a checkmate
    It gives u a break to think abt it
    An when u decide u r on track
    It gives extra power to over come hurdles
    Feeling of pain will bring happiness
    Feelings of sorrow will bring smile
    After the night falls
    The sun will again comeout
    Criticism will definately take u to your goals
    Gd morning sos dear

  11. Jendhamuni Sos

    September 15, 2013

    +prakash b Constructive criticism is a valuable critique. We all need that and we should learn how to handle that effectively.

  12. azeb de

    September 15, 2013

    You are so wise sos that is the only way we can handle with the negative people we need to love them and asking wisedom of God may God bless all

  13. prakash b

    September 15, 2013

    Maa said exactly that
    Costructive
    Un meaningful criticism
    We sd nt get thrr
    Bcs this type will never accept our views
    Bcs they have a huge exper8nce of unmeaningful taughts
    U r rt sos dear

  14. Jendhamuni Sos

    September 15, 2013

    +Thanavuddho Bhikkhu Dear Venerable Sir, just like the Dhammapada said: "As a solid rock is not shaken by the wind, so the wise are not shaken by blame and praise. As a deep lake is clear and calm, so the wise become tranquil after they listened to the truth."

  15. ปัญญาพล คุ้มปรางค์

    September 15, 2013

    The evil it caused at work. To spread widely.
    The first post is just a servant .
    The director of a mine disaster for others . Behind.
    This is like a person who acts as a command .
    To work for the interests of their group. But not the responsibility .
    The executive has no visibility at all.
    It is a conflict in the work group .
    The error . And report the facts wrong . Was not monitored .
    I have always been a decline . The conflict. ( Clear enough to understand and thin silk ) .
    Some people prefer to act as chief of staff in attendance.
    However, the lack of understanding in the absence of visual Peace Valley .
    Fought all the time.
    Defeat is . Operation is not successful.
    Country is burning money away.

    You try to draw the line through all the points.
    Only four lines.
    Through every point.
    I think you can.
          .    .    .
          .    .    .
          .    .    .

  16. Geoffrey Okot

    September 15, 2013

    That's what life give us sometime so its up to u to pick what's best: thinking about someone criticise is waste of time u could have tough of something productive.

  17. Aisha Salim

    September 15, 2013

    very nice +Jendhamuni Sos ! you are great girl.Stay blessed…. & be happy forever & i wish that your all true wishes comes true 🙂

  18. Edmond Wanyonyi Kichali

    September 15, 2013

    You deserve big congratulation for your live building and inspiring posts…Be blessed more!

  19. Ishak Bali

    September 15, 2013

    very nice what you say you are great smile 🙂

  20. Ruthie Stark - Redman

    September 15, 2013

    POWERFUL +Jendhamuni Sos!  Thank you my friend for speaking wisdom and truth.  Have a fantastic, glorious day.  You are truly an 'anointed' individual and I send to you support, admiration and love.  Godspeed

  21. Ray Odaji

    September 15, 2013

    dats why it is said dat'dat silence is d best answer given to fools'

  22. Pieter Hibma

    September 15, 2013

    In sport we call it form, keep practising till your advice becomes 2nd nature. Martial art has katas same thing. In nature we see the grass bending and moving where the wind directs it. Likewise the trees, if they don't a strong storm eventually uproots them. Thanks for the advice your post always makes me think.

  23. Timothy Mckiness

    September 15, 2013

    Wise men and women speak in conversation idiots speak in criticism because of their fear or anger or lack of understanding

  24. Lav Prasad

    September 16, 2013

    very good thought for me today because i was afraid for the social media just for a incident. I dont want to met them but they come from back in my life and fear me. Please just post any more steps to ignore them.

  25. Seth Stephen

    September 17, 2013

    Hi.. u look beautiful….cool pics….come on cool…

  26. Ali Khan

    September 20, 2013

    whenever fool people talk to say them good by

  27. Merin Fraser

    September 20, 2013

    Nah I need not link with people who do not share similar way of seeing

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