In a true marriage

Marriage is a blessing but many people turn their married life into a curse due to lack of understanding, tolerance and patience. Poverty is not the main cause of an unhappy married life. Husband and wife must learn to share the pleasure and pain of everything in their daily life. Mutual understanding is the secret of a happy family life.

By Ven. Dr. K. Sri Dhammananda

http://leelavadeeflower.blogspot.com/2014/06/happily-married-life.html

Comments

  1. ashok sharma

    June 23, 2014

    Gud mrng jen,mutual understanding is the key of happy married life

  2. Ravi Nithy

    June 23, 2014

    hi jen good morning & hav a blessing day.
    nice post jen thanks for ur post.

  3. Kumar AM

    June 23, 2014

    Absolutely I too also feel like you.

  4. Thomas Farr

    June 23, 2014

    Hi Jen. I don't know if 2 people can stay in love for the long haul. When things go wrong its so . easy to walk away. I see it all the time. Nobody wants to work it out at all, crazy thank you good night

  5. Alicia Calimlim

    June 23, 2014

    Marriage does not guarantee u will be last together forever.It's only a paper…it takes love,respect,trust,faith in a relationship to make it last.

  6. Carlos Bation

    June 23, 2014

    Lunch time ,communication is the best way to stay in love

  7. dileep jha

    June 24, 2014

    yes, marriage is completely depends upon understanding and tolerance.,

  8. Jayesh Thakkar

    June 24, 2014

    Even the tween brothers or sisters have the different nature and habits , marriage is an experience to adjust and make a bridge of understanding between two different persons of different nature, having different ideologies, having different aims of life. Have a nice day Jendhamuni Sos.

  9. nandita nag

    June 24, 2014

    Reads very well but every marriage is unique. The same rules or ideas don't apply in the same manner. When you are married you just know your own marriage and not anybody else's. You cannot. It's good to observe good values as a human being and uphold social etiquettes between husband and wife. That will ensure harmony just as it does between neighbours but again there is an urge to let your hair down while you are with your spouse because you are in an intimate circle with him or her. Besides there are totally unpredictable turns and twists of life which sucks you in like a twister and vomits you out like a python. So I guess good manners don't apply but trust does. It's the single binding factor.

  10. Desrai Moody

    June 24, 2014

    Thanks for sharing this beautiful post Jend,,,,its so true,,also many marriages lack communication,,,hugs sis,!!!!!

  11. Mohammed Irfan

    June 24, 2014

    Accordind to me to lead a very happy married life you should read and understand the glorious quraan and hadees. Because everyone say couple have good mutual understanding, tolerance and patience if they want lead a happy life. How to implement all these, it is mentioned in quraan and hadees.

  12. Tony Dillard

    June 24, 2014

    This is especially true in magickal marriage!!!

  13. jay kan

    June 24, 2014

    Arif tell me ,why married is very bad
    can u explain please . have you been married before ? c'mmond you are my friend .

  14. sagi sridevi

    June 24, 2014

    yes, i do agree to it,  but many of us know this but still..  

  15. MANJUNATH MH

    June 24, 2014

    In our tradition, v so believe that marriages are made in heaven. Its a celeberational event & agreement that the two are willing to repect each other, be mutually sincere & honest for the rest of life.

  16. Lyn Arales

    June 24, 2014

    I resPct.u.but i dont blve im marriage.u. Can be happy if both of u have undrstanding to each other.

  17. Kamran Ali

    June 24, 2014

    Really true.true fact of happy marriage

  18. Arthi Mohan

    June 24, 2014

    Very true. What do u do if your partner s not faithful

  19. Michael Kwesu

    June 24, 2014

    True marriage is a blessing from God and it doesn't matter you are rich or poor. Once the two parties keeps on disagreeing then the marriage should be cancelled through proper divorce procedures. Its better to part ways when both of you are alive

  20. Bumble Bee

    June 24, 2014

    marriage is a true sense of humour among two diff. body,mind,soul which act to concentrate with a definite goal.I f the coincidence adheres to with its least concerns of suffocation/airyness in minds at any instance is relates to a true marriage..where both the ends extracts a definite taste to each. 

  21. Roxina Cano

    June 24, 2014

    Yes is true and I will be with all the good things and bad things because I know we are powerful together we love is strong and real and we can do anything together l love you ♡

  22. Roskin Ahmed

    June 24, 2014

    Yeah ! Marriage are made in heaven broken down in the earth

  23. Bruce Linton

    June 24, 2014

    Accepting unconditionally what you don't understand is even more important and basic to marital happiness than understanding. Matthew Kelly's "shared resolution to help each other become the best possible versions of themselves" is a key to both of the above.

  24. Bruce Linton

    June 24, 2014

    Spousal Prayer – a book by Deacon James Keating, is a gem on what marriage can really be – invincibly powerful shared prayers in a life that is like one giant shared prayer – that's God's purpose in creating Marriage, why so-called "same sex Marriage" is contradiction in terms. In the beginning GOD created them male and female – period, exclamation point!

  25. Sandra Nicole Payne

    June 24, 2014

    This topic is so heavy for me because I preach this so much. Marriage is suppose to be such a sacred union. And it has become so tainted and doesn't mean the same as it use to, seriously I want to scream right now because how polluted society has made marriage. PEOPLE DONT STICK IT OUT ANYMORE and its sad, 

  26. Bruce Linton

    June 24, 2014

    Sandra I couldn't agree more with your post. I too could scream, but by God's grace I find place and make time to pray! Father forgive them, they know not what they do, prayed the eternal WORD on His cross. God grant us serenity to accept what we cannot change, courage to change the things we can, and wisdom to know the difference…and as Isaiah prophesied, may we be kept in perfect peace whose minds stayed on God.

  27. Greg Opland

    June 24, 2014

    True jendhamuni , to communicate and share thoughts makes positive progress

  28. Jogie Lumaghan

    June 24, 2014

    Oh yeah…its hard to work out the marriage….when only one party will make the marriage work and the other part is dragging u down…..better be alone…as human we have limits….

  29. jack mahan

    June 24, 2014

    Blessing? It was a pagan ritual first .

  30. md tufail

    June 24, 2014

    beautiful …:) ……:) ……:) …:) …:)

  31. Girishekhar J. Chaudhari

    June 24, 2014

    It is said that marriages are made in heaven. If it is so, every marriage should be successful. Husband and wife must live like eachother's soulmate.

  32. Dante Love Jones

    June 24, 2014

    It would be heaven!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!             Amen

  33. Raghav panday

    June 24, 2014

    Hi jen , it is right what u r saying , but I' would say if husbant and wife are really in love true love with each other it remain the same till they die,,,,,
    Let me tell you one real story ,,,my mother died of heart attack when my father was 96 , years old ,,,and right after 1,year my father died you know why ,because he was continuely crying for my mother ,,,real love,,,
    Just amazingly love at that age ,,,,,

  34. s walles

    June 24, 2014

    Marriage mean love,trust,honest, respect sharing pain and happyness inbeween both respectvly in holy and peace heart share . Always trying to win each others heart anyway . It binding you a strong love thread .it named as marraige

  35. Jessy K

    June 24, 2014

    Married life is a blessing and is in some sense a mixture of a tried and true wine. I don't believe it can be a curse only that it can be sometimes bitter, sweet, full or painful… and maybe empty, boring. Where does the Blessing come from? From Whom? and for Who? These are important to ponder. I suppose.

  36. Jessy K

    June 24, 2014

    It's all about Love to me… love to make each other stronger in love.. for love.

  37. Jessy K

    June 24, 2014

    together through and through…

  38. Esther Emmanuel

    June 24, 2014

    That is true but u also need God's presence for a happy marriage

  39. Damien Gibson

    June 24, 2014

    Outsiders kill marriages. When someone inside the marriage lets them.

    Marriage is a partnership. A team. An organization. A unit.

    However you put it, it is a group effort. A house (marriage) divided will easily fall. When one person quits, EVERYONE involved suffers.

    Most notably, the quitter.

  40. Asir Mohan Raj

    June 24, 2014

    Yes lack of understanding is very dangerous thanks jendhamuni good morning

  41. achuthan vatakketath ravi

    June 24, 2014

    dear nandita nag
    you are correct. etiquette is important. trust becomes always stronglinks to hold fast the happiness.if and when it's weakened the breach between the male and female becomes sudden and irreparable. all other things told and gossiped are simply certain external talks coming from the mouth not from the inner bowels.

  42. abiola alfred

    June 25, 2014

    U are very right and others who post there comments are right as well becos thats there opinions but we all grace and mercy of God for our marriage to succeed.

  43. angelmeno meno

    June 25, 2014

    May God give us a good life partner who understand us and our feelings.a kind of person who knw how to sacrifice for each other.

  44. chukwudi Eze

    June 25, 2014

    I choose tolerance and and endurance in relationship the rest will be a follow up.

  45. rebeka sakthi

    June 25, 2014

    that is really good teaching for a good family life jendha,now a day marriage became a play are role of holding life long license for life,why do people do this i don't no,marriage is so beautiful relation ,which is full of love,caring each anther,sharing memories,u can holding hand walk for mails mails.hope every one enjoy their marriage life.

  46. Amaka Okoye

    June 25, 2014

    U re right some pple fail to understand wot marriage is all abt.

  47. Tatenda Moyo

    June 26, 2014

    That's true. Marriage is a blessing from God. Always be happy

  48. Roxina Cano

    July 5, 2014

    You care you love you must to take care of it
    And be strong with yourself because any other could confusing and you lose you bless is good marry with a real love I think women for a bed is in any place and any time but you change that for you really love is only for you and only you are the more affected and hurts
    Think about it …..
    That kind the woman is like that and you don't love to her….
    Don't change you bless for trash
    Mistake everybody doing but you are special because you have the opportunity to be really happy totally happy like I want to be with you….
    Think about it! think again!
    You know we can live apart anymore and it is true you know that! Somebody else can live without problems
    But you and me we are diferent we are special and we can't live without each other…..
    WE CAN'T
    WE LOVE US
    WE LOVE US SO MUCH
    I LOVE YOU SO MUCH
    AND I WANT YOU BE HAPPY
    AND DON'T CRY ANY MORE FOR PAIN ONLY YOU'LL CRY FOR HAPPINESS….. TOGETHER WITH ME ♡♡

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