The moment you realize

1. The moment you realize that the person you cared for has nothing intellectually or spiritually to offer you, but a headache.

2. The moment you realize God had greater plans for you that don’t involve crying at night or sad Pinterest quotes.

3. The moment you stop comparing yourself to others because it undermines your worth, education and your parent’s wisdom.

4. The moment you live your dreams, not because of what it will prove or get you, but because that is all you want to do. People’s opinions don’t matter.

5. The moment you realize that no one is your enemy, except yourself.

6. The moment you realize that you can have everything you want in life. However, it takes timing, the right heart, the right actions, the right passion and a willingness to risk it all. If it is not yours, it is because you really didn’t want it, need it or God prevented it.

7. The moment you realize the ghost of your ancestors stood between you and the person you loved. They really don't want you mucking up the family line with someone that acts anything less than honorable.

8. The moment you realize that happiness was never about getting a person. They are only a helpmate towards achieving your life mission.

9. The moment you believe that love is not about losing or winning. It is just a few moments in time, followed by an eternity of situations to grow from.

10. The moment you realize that you were always the right person. Only ignorant people walk away from greatness. 

~Shannon L. Alder

http://leelavadeeflower.blogspot.com/2014/05/the-moment-you-realize.html

Comments

  1. Mannish Kanz

    May 18, 2014

    This 'll give a lots of coureg to broken hearted ppl ! Great post!

  2. garylee joy

    May 19, 2014

    Thank you for sharing this Jendhamuni Sos. Yes may we trust our Heavenly Father who knows best.

  3. Jayesh Thakkar

    May 18, 2014

    You may be right from your point of view but action of a heart never cares for a positive or nagetive reaction. Have a sound sleep Sos.

  4. Ajay Agnihotri

    May 19, 2014

    Very beautiful thoughts ..Jendhamuni. .thanks for encouraging all. ..have a peaceful night. .good night. .

  5. Jerilee Orina

    May 19, 2014

    I like that" very good" 🙂 Jerilee Orona 05/18/14; 10:28pm

  6. koh billy

    May 19, 2014

    You do not know how to give n take – love between 2 pax is about sacrificing. And he is in the flesh. Not a thing which you cant see or touch.

  7. April Hernandez

    May 19, 2014

    I love this n can totally relate at this point in my life…

  8. Josie D.

    May 19, 2014

    Nice words it is really helpful for me….

  9. Wan Syazwan

    May 19, 2014

    ေနေကာင္းလား who are you.

  10. gideon dabok

    May 19, 2014

    U get good poin for healing heart. Dear God blessed u.

  11. Susan Campos

    May 19, 2014

    Greatness is and will always be. No matter the circumstances. Divine intervention may occur, His ways are not our ways. It is acknowledging and knowing making a choice and taking responsibility for that decision. The Heart is love and love is unconditional and forever, love is love. Little or large it is still love. Risk happens, and trust occurs, if it does not it was not meant to be, but love is acknowledged, not lost. Always there, as a small spark turns to a roaring raging flame that love builds. The ancestors may guide you, they want the best for you too. Any negative feelings are shadows in the wind, warnings. Love is love.

  12. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    My ancestors can see my tears and feel my pain and know all the people responsible for my sufferings
    Continuously for years . They know what to do to the man responsible for torturing me and they will only time will tell and I am waiting for that day

  13. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    Jitna rulana hai rula ek din tu Royega aur Mai hasungi bas kuch hi Dino ki Baath hai itna aitbaar hai muje apne aap par

  14. Susan Sevilla

    May 19, 2014

    Its hards to accept the reality that im live in the dark way of life

  15. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    You are a darkness that has shadowed my happiness , burning fire that is turned my life into ashes

  16. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    Your acts are so devilish and your talks satanic you are nothing but trouble a walking talking famine floods and thunder lighting which has made me life a barren land where nothing can grow now

  17. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    Where once there was spring today there is winter a very ugly sad dark night that has no hope of light
    One look at me and everyone knows you have killed my soul

  18. Yua ToA

    May 19, 2014

    How can you even believe in any religious book while using all these modern inventions?

  19. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    Cold has gripped my hands and feet and negativity my heart bitterness runs in my blood which has turned blue and will be frozen soon all u will get one day is my cold body which u will have up burn Lolz Lolz Lolz Lolz

  20. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    Satsang Bhajan kirtans are all actions to show people not to get close to god

  21. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    You are a hypocrite and very bias person you show people you are very kind and humble which u are not in realty you have a very cold heart and a conniving mind your soul has turned dark and your head turned away from god towards the devil

  22. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    All that I have gathered about u in the last 5 years proves you are. A very ugly soul and man who has no value for others happiness. And life who thinks that he is the best and the rest of the world shud be his slave who only believes in snatching and stealing luck and opportunitiesz from others who has sold his soul to the devil

  23. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    So far I don't see one good quality in you that I can call u human all your acts are so inhuman and viscous

  24. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    All I do everyday every min is regret that I was born and hate the people who are responsible for me to be on this earth . I can never blame god becoz he wanted me to be happy but it's my dirty fate that I met people who have been nothing but jealous I exist

  25. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    Every cell in my body is trying to do something in this life to achieve something but my ill fate ( sunny boy ) has done everything he can to prevent it
    No I won't forgive u for coming in between my dreams and me no one will one day that day you will curse your own self becoz it will be too late

  26. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    Anyways I am tired and broken may god teach u a very good lesson. For all the hardships that u are making me go thru . If you want to walk towards hell who am I to stop u SO BE IT

  27. Michael Peterson

    May 19, 2014

    the only thing that i can say about all that is. You have to be true to yourself and follow your heart happiness is found within dont let anyone take away from yourself no matter what life dishes out. GO GIRL

  28. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    Only thing I can see is that you are going to fall on your face and smash it at the same time till all the ugliness is poured out of your system one day

  29. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    Like I said the man is smart and ugly he keeps repeating words of encouragement from his satanic lips but wants you to fail deep inside his heart . He thrives to see me fall and loose he grows stronger whenever he sees. Me cry in pain he rejoices with his gang when he hears my heart break and bleed

  30. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    Fake encouragement fake feelings fake love and fake hope nothing but fake

  31. Suleman Muhammad

    May 19, 2014

    Imp Quotation : 
    Kya Yahi ha kmal ishq-o-mohabat karny ka 
    K umar jenay ki ha or shoq marny ka 

  32. Michael Peterson

    May 19, 2014

    when life gets us down and breaks your heart and leaves you feeling empty inside its not that your a bad person God loves us more than anything he is teaching. us a lesson beyond our comprehensionm everything we do good or bad is for a higher purpose even if we dont understand at the time

  33. Welcome AngkorWat

    May 19, 2014

    ជើងមេឃពណ៌ខ្មៅ ហៅបងលែងលឺ ស្រីណាមិនឈឺ ដួងចិត្តសោកា បើប្រុសក្បត់ សម្បថស្នេហា ហ៊ានរៀបការ ផ្ទឹមនឹងគូថ្មី តើសល់អ្វី ឲ្យស្រីសង្ឃឹម? ស្តាយព្រហ្មចារី ស្តាយវ័យក្រមុំ យំមួយម៉ឺនឆ្មាំ ក៏មិនបាត់ដែរ អោ!ស្ពានអើយ អាណិតខ្ញុំទេ តើត្រូវជេរ ឬមិនត្រូវជេរ? ប្រុសក្បត់ស្នេហ៍ ចិត្តរេដូចភ្លៀង អោ!បងអើយបង អូនមិនខឹងទេ អូនមិនជេរទេ នៅតែស្នេហ៍ជានិច្ច ឲ្យភ្លេចមិនភ្លេច ថ្វីបើប្រុសមានល្បិច ស៊ូយំសស្រិច ម្នាក់ឯង ពីតូចដល់ធំ ខ្ញុំយំធម្មតា យំព្រោះស្នេហា មិនដែលយំទេ តែពេលនេះ ខ្ញុំយំគ្មានល្ហែ ខ្ញុំខំទប់ ទឹកភ្នែកណាស់ដែរ តែទឹកភ្នែកនៅហូរដដែល ។។

  34. wunmzo babe

    May 19, 2014

    thats true cos if u fail to let him/her go u loss all 

  35. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    I spit on your face Bain choth soni ka dalal you are not worth respecting one bit

  36. Bernadette Keating

    May 19, 2014

    i like This i Think its Beautiful Sitting There Watching The Sea Flow By.To Me it Would b Calm And BreathTaking.

  37. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    Mahar karer i think u are not reading my comments ignorant piece of shit

  38. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    The son of a whore called nanda is. Afraid of that insecure pimp is all around my life now u get it kuthi

  39. Lerato Swarts

    May 19, 2014

    true dear but God says accept the person as they are…..Love them unconditionally.

  40. Andy Woodward

    May 19, 2014

    There’s a lot to be said a big Shlong my dear!
    Sorry to spoil the moment.

  41. Sylvia Rodney

    May 19, 2014

    This is so true, I'm facing the same thing righr now

  42. Mary Howard

    May 19, 2014

    What a piecefull setting/poem I draw strength from it I lovel sitting by the ocean as the waves roll n I say Father handle it u can do a better job with this person/problem than I can! When the tide rolls out I know it is done… thank you

  43. Sylvia Rodney

    May 19, 2014

    +jhelay fazli yes when you see something that hurt your heart you want others who are hurting to know that they're not alone and this copy clip touched everything I'm going through right now

  44. Sylvia Rodney

    May 19, 2014

    Sometimes you dont have someone close enough or who you can trust but there is something with the ocean that when you sit and watch the waves then the calm it renind yoou that life is like that with its up and downs and through it all there will be a calm and peace that you're seeking

  45. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    Thukthi hu tere gaandu words pe hijara tujhe ek Gandi bimari ho jaye meri badua hai tuje

  46. Sylvia Rodney

    May 19, 2014

    Our help cometh from the lord bur we nust also remember he did find a quiet place on the mountain, by the sea, and he also in the carden to pray so something we have to have a quiet place to make that connection with our lord and master because we are all flesh so we all have to find our quiet place to seek his face and here his voice

  47. Ruth Fernandez

    May 19, 2014

    Life is good when u have God in youR life. You start feeling peace and happiness

  48. Veronica Alcala

    May 19, 2014

    Thank you, for the uplifting words, great way to start my Monday and the rest of my days.

  49. Sylvia Rodney

    May 19, 2014

    +Palesa Ngwenya its not god who cannot give the things we dont need but we as flesh who were born in sin seek the things that seems pleasing in eyes instead of waiting and trusting him for what is best for us myself included it's the choices that we all make thats why we get hurt in stead of waiting for the lord to bless us. Remember the garden of eden what was gods words but he gave us choices and we at times believe that all that glitters is gold myself included

  50. Marium Saleem

    May 19, 2014

    i nvr evr go dr….:(:( want 2 seee n feel peace :):) innshaaALLAH…

  51. Beth White

    May 19, 2014

    Very nice. Some really really encouraging thoughts.

  52. George odindo

    May 19, 2014

    This encoureges those who dont understand why not loved……a good one

  53. George odindo

    May 19, 2014

    Thx for the efforts made to enable pple know fucts that are hidden.

  54. Teresa M-Y

    May 19, 2014

    This is spirituality full circle within itself.

  55. George odindo

    May 19, 2014

    Thx for the efforts made to enable pple know fucts that are hidden.

  56. wangui kinyanjui

    May 19, 2014

    m loving that coz life cannot be lived without a sec help from  such courageous words..

  57. Sheila Couvion

    May 19, 2014

    Nothing more painful than finding out that the one you loved is a rapists. That is true pain!

  58. Sylvia Rodney

    May 19, 2014

    Thank you jack may god bless you and remember me in your prayers

  59. Judy Steenbock

    May 19, 2014

    We are all grains of sand but. Together form a beautiful beach.

  60. Tshering Zangmo

    May 19, 2014

    love sometimes turns into worst than enemy, and leaves great pain as a memory in our life!!!

  61. Sylvia Rodney

    May 19, 2014

    +connie powell my friend this is my life struggle this is my real pain so please remember me in your prayers I'm mot one to sit and have idle comversation I'm a god fearing lady and with all that happen I feel that if there are someone out there felling the same pain I'm going through at I want to let them know that they are not alone and to be honest talking about it ease the pain a little may god bless you my friend

  62. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    Sylvia I have seen enough and been forced thru enough shit to know who my really enemy is . Don't give me this shit about one day been hearing that for years I am sick to the core of my heart listening to fucked up empty Gandu words like that nothing will change nothing will be solved my friends were taken I kept quiet mother fucker kuthi ka beta ruined my business I did not loose hope I started all over again guess what the mother fucker sits hiding behind pussy and plays with my small not yet developed business as it is standing on stills he is breaking those stills and throwing it back in. Water this time I will fight with everyone if I have to I swear on my sons this time I will do what I have never done before
    Just wait and watch ………,,,,,,,,,,,,,, I am waiting to show my colors sometimes dogs have to be shown hadi first then thrown in a well forever

  63. Chitra Khilnani

    May 19, 2014

    Mather. Choth muje malum hai tu balls khareedna ke liye 2015 ka wait kar raha hai . Hijara !!! Gadi gadi mat dikha type karke thak tha nahi hai kya everyday I know u are showing me 2015 directly indirectly don't worry I will wait till u grow your balls face to face ek kamzor kuthe ko dekhna hai . Ek aur saal wait kar lungi tere par thukne ke liye

  64. Wynette W

    May 19, 2014

    The moment I realized… it's not about me… it's about pleasing God, who created the world and its contents by speaking them into existence, it's all about doing His will, pleasing Him, following His agenda and working within His plan… His agenda is: saving the whole wide world!

  65. Sylvia Rodney

    May 19, 2014

    +Penny Bechstein my friend there's are people out there hurting as much as I'm hurting so I'm reaching out to all you wonderful people out there that are touched by what I'm going through at this point in my life for strength

  66. Sylvia Rodney

    May 19, 2014

    That take the time out to listen and send me your words of encouragement I truly thank you all may god bless each and everyone of you thanks

  67. Zainon Zainal

    May 19, 2014

    So grateful for the text n give me the courage to love n give love.

  68. Olumide Olumakinde

    May 19, 2014

    Don't underestimate yourself, because you are valuable.You are the expression of God's image, and don't try to change people, if you do, what you are simply saying is that you are better than that person.Rather see them the way God sees them.Give them the of God, and allow the word to make them what God wants them to be.

  69. Vinod Malik

    May 19, 2014

    Could not be more truer.If only we all could understand the depth,the world would be a happier place.Not that it is not happy.Have a great day.

  70. LILACANGEL Craig

    May 19, 2014

    So I had no proper friends and Mick done it cos he had to I mean so b it I'm just glad there gone

  71. Anita Byers

    May 19, 2014

    Starting to realize more every day I love this post

  72. Cindy Burguss

    May 19, 2014

    Stephanie that was enlightening and beautiful!  I wish I could read something like that everyday.  Thank you

  73. Shirley Hauer

    May 19, 2014

    I think that the deep thinking that went into this will help many a person. Including me. The person that follows this, or reflects on it will be much happier

  74. angel beni-mangli

    May 19, 2014

    And the moment you realize all of these or any of these..u are free! 🙂

  75. Neepa Dasgupta

    May 19, 2014

    I liked it so much , I read at least 3times a day . Very encouraging .

  76. Judith Lungu

    May 19, 2014

    I look back at a time when I was a very bitter person because of the pain I suffered at the hands of a loved one. I now feel I would not have suffered so much pain if I had known and believed in the loving God who is always there with me. I would have shared my pain with Him. I would have asked for peace of mind.

  77. Neepa Dasgupta

    May 19, 2014

    Even I have lot of ailments problem but only wt my prayer I can walk forward .

  78. Gma Melina

    May 19, 2014

    Need someone to talk to about life's issues or relationship problems?? Or just want to talk to someone??
    I'm here to listen and advice. 🙂 grandma Merlina!!

  79. Neepa Dasgupta

    May 19, 2014

    By d way , I d'nt have any relationship problems . Grandma . I put in my prayer all shd be live wt joy & happiness .

  80. LILACANGEL Craig

    May 19, 2014

    I have something to tell you all I'm not angry at anyone I'm proud you all believe in me what I did was from the heart and that's enuf payment for me so I'm not taking any mony xxxx

  81. LILACANGEL Craig

    May 19, 2014

    Silence lol I no but as you have all seen I have very strong values over life look at all the people and children web save that's priceless to me

  82. Santi AK

    May 19, 2014

    Really very close to my heart……………..

  83. Eliza Montibon

    May 19, 2014

    Thank. I feel that your words of wisdom helped me to realize that living in the moment embraces what makes me smile with joy n laughter that captures my soul to be free!

  84. Eliza Montibon

    May 19, 2014

    Ooops. Thank you for your words of wisdom, especially for today. I was just fumbling via internet and hsppened to receive this. Meant to be!!

  85. Saad Ali Saad

    May 19, 2014

    ماشاء الله♥♡ رووووعة I ♥ it.. very beutyful

  86. Saad Ali Saad

    May 19, 2014

    ماشاء الله♥♡ رووووعة I ♥ it.. very beutyful

  87. Marion Ksal

    May 19, 2014

    encouraging to change ones persprective on ones role and own happiness in life

  88. LILACANGEL Craig

    May 19, 2014

    Were are you my friends toe lotas. Wolf don't no who else is here but uno were all friends well mostly …..iv missed you so much xx

  89. naqi haider

    May 19, 2014

    I dont understnd that how I can explain that u r so great

  90. LILACANGEL Craig

    May 19, 2014

    Hi don't no which ones you are bit missed you why hasn't Mick or noe come o its OK ….I'm not special uno I'm just me and all of you had a part in this we should b proud of are selves uno some times its so nice just for someone to take a few minutes put of there life to say hi how are you cos that could b the only kind word they get all day o I no I can b cow bit were all dof that's what makes us all special cc bbs

  91. Pat Mcgrath

    May 19, 2014

    What inspiring reflections….these are truly words of wisdom!

  92. Ndumi B

    May 19, 2014

    Wow! This is great!! I love it

  93. Marie Mercier

    May 19, 2014

    Magnifique<3:)comment ta fait pour faire ca c trop bien fait:)

  94. Sylvia Rodney

    May 19, 2014

    +Chitra Khilnani god bless you bitter people I don't want to talk to stay in your darkness I will be forever in the light and please do not respond to me again I refuse to have people like you talking to me you need god in your life your so bitter please don't respond to me, your words I truly do not need goodbye

  95. leckai zkai

    May 19, 2014

    Best reminders while we are struggling in day by day.

  96. ViAnn Delarenzo

    May 19, 2014

    I love that photo with the moving water! How do I do that ? I am blown away!!! please please share!!!
    ViAnn

  97. Hadiya Wade

    May 19, 2014

    Is that natural.
    With part of the earth you are on

  98. Mary Smith

    May 19, 2014

    Shut yo mouth and keep on tlkin…. Enough said.

  99. Stacey M. Brewster

    May 19, 2014

    I enjoyed the words….GOD gave us grace with his only begotten Son. We are blessed for our lives. We are blessed for each & Every moment!
    We being human take for granted our blessings…We all do. GOD gave us…The choice. Times we rush in….see red flags but still choose to stay for whatever reason. We forget…..
    Put GOD FIRST….
    & regarding technology. …The Tree of Knowledge. ….GOD is all!!
    We all need to Love, be loved, be heard ( respectively)..Listen..Trust
    We are all the same here…..human being…GOD'S Children….

  100. Stacey M. Brewster

    May 19, 2014

    +Sylvia Rodney…hi…I actually never posted before…
    I thought your words were very true, comforting, full of wisdom. Please don't allow ignore posts that are hateful. They're just having a either horrible day or have a horrible life & just feel the Need to spread their ugliness. …Do not allow this to invade your space….
    Please have a wonderful day!! You are still here…Enjoy everyday….Look at the very day beauty. …really. Even the shades of the grass…wow…It's the littlest things that means & stands out so much. You are a blessing. I'll be thinking about you…GOD BLESS.. You, your words made an impact…..Thank you…
    Negatively is wasted energy.

  101. Manik Mani

    May 19, 2014

    M now Bahrain so steel m all ready enjoy

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