What I have learned from my Buddhist Master

One day, I was very upset, because my best friend got laid off. I love her so much and didn't want her to lose the job. I was just a very young girl around those days, didn't know what to do, when coping something like this. So I cried. In the evening, I went to see my Buddhist Master and told him the story. This is what he said to me:

"You are crying, because your co-worker
lost her job, so you are not happy.
You want her to return to work so 
you can be happy again…
My Little Girl, you are very selfish!
Your happiness is very conditional!
Did you realize that?
It's all about making you happy,
so you can stop crying!"

It took me a while to understand his message.
From then on, I learned how to conquer my mind,
and try my best, not to let anything disturb my inner peace…

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  1. Keith Charles

    February 6, 2013

    This is a great post +Jendhamuni Sos. I also trust in the higher awareness and continuous presence of great masters who have gone before us, and I believe these beings hear our prayers and respond to them. The Buddha Presence is everywhere, and Universal Spiritual Compassion is always there for us to call upon. This is the greatest lesson I have learned thus far in my lifetime.

  2. Charles van Dijk

    February 6, 2013

    The same thing at funerals? We cry because we miss mum or dad. Well they are in heaven at least my mum is I don't know about dad. So there is no reason to feel sad 🙂

  3. Jendhamuni Sos

    February 6, 2013

    +Keith Charles I agree! Good deed of a spiritual practitioner will shake Heaven, while bad deed of wrong-doers will shake Hell.

  4. Mario BRUNO

    February 6, 2013

    What a Beautiful face you have , Looks like you had a Great experience and I am Happy for you , Have a Wonderful Peaceful Night !

  5. Patricia E.F.

    February 6, 2013

    Wise master and you so sweet story dear sister +Jendhamuni Sos But I can't follow that advice completely because I'm human and i've deffects and weakness….I cry because of joy and sorrow 🙂

  6. Alan Peto

    February 6, 2013

    Love the message +Jendhamuni Sos 🙂  Buddhist masters always have a great way of 'waking' us up 🙂

  7. Randy Neufeldt

    February 6, 2013

    You've given me something to really thing about. Thank you! 🙂

  8. vidya sagar

    February 6, 2013

    well said and an excellent expierence of urs which u have shared and making others to understand is really superb sos. Much liked ur expiernce friend.

  9. Patricia E.F.

    February 6, 2013

    +vidya sagar still doesn't realize it's me Patricia Errazuriz and I closed my account.  Hope you're doing my friend..

  10. Disai Sallu

    February 6, 2013

    wowoowo 
    cut
    very nice '
    good
    Beautiful 
    sweet 
    lovely …………………………………….♥♥♥

  11. vidya sagar

    February 6, 2013

    Nevr miss the first opportunity
    bcoz
    the second opportunity
    will b much difficult than first 1
    Gud Mrning

  12. Dave Lavis

    February 7, 2013

    I think we have to contemplate these things on a daily basis :o))

  13. Dietrich Lombarde

    February 7, 2013

    I thought it is natural to feel for ones friend and even cry over her/his misfortune.
    I cant be happy if my friend is unhappy  and afraid.
    I think  there is more to it ,then be happy in your self.

  14. p.swarna kumar

    February 8, 2013

    yes,dear jendhamuni…true..you are so..lovely..ha,ha.

  15. Darrell Darner

    February 8, 2013

    Its ok to share ones pain if only to comfort one another.

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